Help and Advice

[blocks]

Right about the weather!! I complain it's hot and doesn't feel like Christmas because it's not cold, but if I were home I would complain about the cold! LOL!

I agree, they are great! It's a relief just to speak on it all and the insight is priceless. I'm realizing quickly I think there are things I'm going to need to embrace and face instead of ignore.

You all are great. It's so appreciated!

Best wishes

[ojibwe]

Hello Blocks,
I am off on our great journey. I will get back to you upon our return on 12/26!!!
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU AND YOURS!!!!
Your Friend,
Shawn ;D

[GypsyMoon]

Its an old belief that if you ignore something it will go away.
Might I also suggest getting your daughter a tablet to draw in. Ask her calmly like a game to draw things inside the house that Mommy cannot see. any imaginary friends,scary puppys,shadows.angels,fairys.gnomes, anything also that makes her happy thats around and eventually anything around that makes her sad.I think it would be a healthy exorcise and might get to the bottom of whats realy going on.

[GypsyMoon]

Definition of the Empath:
Often considered a subset of telepathy, empathy is the transfer of emotions from one individual to another through psychic means. Typically, empathy functions by the receiver feeling the emotions of others for themselves, often within a localized range. It can also be used over distances, though some find this more difficult.

Like telepathy, empathy can be either receptive or projective. With receptive empathy, the empath actively feels the emotions of those around them, while with projective empathy, they send these emotions out. Interestingly, most nons seem to be receptive to broadcasted empathic messages without themselves having empathic ability.

An empath is a psychic who percieves the emotion of others as his/her own.

A person with empathy doesn't always appear to be sensative, they may also seem apathetic, because they are able to control their own emotion better than their ability to percieve the emotions of others. Empaths also can seem to have the same emotion, to a high degree, whenever in a public place, this is because they can cancel out another empath's perception. These empaths can do this by emptying themselves of their own emotions, which is done by many empaths, only they take it one step further: they fill up this emotional gap with one, over-powering emotion. Supposedly, these empaths have more control over the emotions that they are affected by. Some empaths have a strong perception that varies only upon how close your relationship is with the emotional origin. Others feel the emotion to a lesser extent when with more people… whether or not this is relationship is actually inversely proportional has yet to be determined. Emapthy is a "quiet" ability, you don't really notice it unless you consciously realize you have it. Empaths can gain control over their power. An empath does not have any control over another's emotions.

[blocks]

Thanks for the info Gypsy! Seems I have a lot to learn
Also, that's a good idea with my daughter. I was trying to figure out how I could question her about it. She sometimes will say no or yes just to answer, even if she doesn't understand. So letting her draw might be a good idea. She still just scribbles, but if I get her talking while she's doing it I think it will work out. We will give that a try. Thank you!

Enjoy the holidays!

[claddaghlass]

What my Dad did with me was ask very basic questions. He'd ask if I could tell what someone was feeling and things along those lines.

Another indicator is hyper-sensitivity. Is she hyper-sensitive to the emotions of others or hyper-sensitive herself with her own emotions?

My parents said I was and to some extent still am, one of the most hyper-sensitive people they've ever come across.

[angelica777]

Dec 22, 2010 9:03:20 GMT -5 ojibwe said:

Hello Blocks,
I am off on our great journey. I will get back to you upon our return on 12/26!!!
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU AND YOURS!!!!
Your Friend,
Shawn ;D

I have missed me Shawn! Merry Christmas!!!! : )

[blocks]

Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday and safe travels!

[ojibwe]

Dearest Blocks,
I hope that you and your Family had a Wonderful Christmas!!!
We all made it home safe and sound, after a WONDERFUL visit with Family and Friends!!!

Has anything new been happening to either you or your daughter since we last communicated??

I just want you to know that I am here for both You and your Daughter!!!
If there is anything new, and even if there is not, it would be good to hear from you!!!
I hope to talk with you again very SOON!!! Until then, Take Care and know that you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and in my heart!!!
Your Friend, ALWAYS!!!
Shawnee

[blocks]

Hi!! I'm glad you had a great holiday! Seems that you avoided the bad weather as well! Good!

Nothing I've noticed happened over the weekend. Wednesday I came home from work and my dresser drawer (which I don't use) was open. No one was here between when I left for work and got home. Something that sparked my interest....my step-sister (step-dad's biological father) said somthing on Facebook the other day about how she misses him this Christmas but she knows he's here and for him to stop changing her radio stations please. She then put lol. We don't talk so I can't ask her about it.
After your last post I replied and gave you some detail about the dream I had the night he he died. Idk if it tells you anything.

My daughter is still not seeming to be effected this time. I have asked her if she plays with anyone besides mama at home and she doesn't have much to say.

Well hope you have a good week and a good start to the new year!! Talk to you soon!

[blocks]

Hope all have a Happy New Year!